Monday, January 24, 2011

Cub Scout Visit to Civil Defense

Last weekend we took the Cub Scouts to the Civil Defense Center here in Amman. The Civil Defense has fire fighting, hazmat, rescue, and other emergency teams. The kids really enjoyed seeing the vehicles and asking questions about almost every hose, knob, and indicator.

Papa's Favorite Things

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Weekend at Petra


Over the weekend we took a road trip to Petra with some friends from the Embassy. The area around Petra is a bone-dry, desolate desert. However, after a 30-minute walk through a dry river bed (Siq), you arrive at a hidden city carved into the mountain sides. The Nabateans not only built the famous Treasury, but also hundreds of other facades, an aqueduct system, an amphitheater, and hundreds of other buildings/caves.


On Friday (our first day in Petra) we took an hour hike up a series of stair cases carved into a steep mountain. At the top of the mountain we found a rock that had been carved into a one bedroom house.

Gaby and I counted and were offered 32 times, "Donkey ride? Good price for you my friend" Finally, at the end of the day we gave in and let the kids ride donkeys. They deserved the rest after hiking a full day with minimal whining.

On our second day, we hiked up to the "Monastery" - an impressive relief carved into the sandstone high up on a mountain top. The hike took us about an hour up and about 20 minutes down. The views from the top of the mountain are well worth the hike even though I had to carry Colin most of the way up.


Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Botched Oud Lessons


From several experiences I’ve concluded that the teacher/student relationship is one that exposes the most differences between cultures. Case in point: for Christmas Shelley gave me an Egyptian Oud - a decorative, twelve string instrument. The day after Christmas, Shelley and I found a small, cigarette smoke-filled music store that offered oud lessons.

On the first visit, the music teacher, Tawfeeh, seemed warm and welcoming. He even offered to restring my oud and have it ready for me the next day. We agreed on a price for lessons ($10/hour lesson) and arranged for me to come back the next day for the first lesson - so far, so good.

I returned the next evening. Before starting the lesson he stated, “it will be $200.” A bit flabbergasted, I asked him to explain. He said I needed to pay upfront for 20 lessons. “You pay for lessons upfront because I commit my time to you,” he said in his broken English. Since just the night before I had seen him sitting with his buddies smoking with no customers in the shop, I suspected he was bluffing and that he wasn’t as popular as he wanted me to think. Having fallen for this “pay upfront” trap before, I told him that I needed at least two lessons before I was ready to commit. The conversation went back and forth several times until he saw that I was ready to leave. He then agreed that I would only pay for that evening’s lesson.

He took me in a back room filled with pictures and posters of himself at the height of his career. From the bellbottom pants and Saturday Night Fever-style shirt that exposed his hairy chest, it seemed like he was a popular musician back in the 70s.

As the lesson began, he was noticeably offended when I asked him why he removed three strings from the oud and later when I asked him to explain the way he was tuning the oud. After a few choppy, incomplete explanations, he played a 15-note scale once and then asked me to repeat it. Again, he was noticeably upset when I could only recall 5-6 of the first notes. He showed them to my twice again, told me to practice, and then left the room for close to 20 minutes. He returned reeking like cigarette smoke, turned to a page in the middle of the book written in Arabic. Without any instruction, he asked me to play it. Again, he wrinkled up his face when I could not play a song 20-minutes into my first lesson. The rest of the hour was no different. Needless to say, I left with no intention of returning.

Happy Birthday Papa!

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Christmas at Church



We had the annual Christmas Pageant at church. Andrew and Colin were wise men and Gaby was the Angel Gabriel. They had to sit on the front row of our chapel and wait for their turn to participate. Andrew was bored waiting so he kept turning his head cover backwards trying to get a laugh from his friends. Instead he got a laugh from the adults behind him since he looked like a covered Afghani woman (this is the color of blue they wear)!

I caught Colin doing this great yawn for the audience.


After the pageant we had a potluck dinner. You have to love potlucks when your congregation is from all over the world. We get to try all sorts of interesting dishes and desserts. And sometimes you get your dinner and dessert together on a stick! Colin could not have been more pleased to find this choice delicacy, a hot dog and marshmallows together on a kabob skewer. Not sure what country this tempting treat comes from. Colin would like to thank whoever was so ingenious!



Christmas Eve morning coming out of church. We go to church on Friday mornings here in Jordan. Friday is the sabbath day for Muslims.

Even though there are not a lot of decorations around town it has been really nice how all the Muslims enjoy wishing us a Merry Christmas. All the local employees at the embassy, my muslim friends at work, the neighbors, even in the grocery store I have people wishing me a happy holiday. The hardest thing when someone says "Merry Christmas" is to not say it back in return. It has taken some practice to just smile and say "thanks!" Muslims are very thoughtful and kind, I've really enjoyed all the well wishes. My kids are going to think it is strange when we are back in the U.S. next December and no strangers are wishing us a "Merry Christmas"!


Andrew's Red Hair

Question: What happens when I have to go into work on Saturday to write report cards?

Answer: Alex takes the kids to get haircuts and the barber offers to dye Andrew's hair red for "Christmas". Of course Alex and Andrew cannot refuse.

So this is what I came home to:

Luckily it washed out after a few days. The elementary principal (my boss) did ask what had happened to Andrew's hair. I told her to get my report cards done I had to leave dad in charge!